March Wish list

My inner self always considered this month as "my month" ever since I was little! Why? Definitely, because March always ages me one more year!
Thinking about a new month that brings us new challenges and opportunities with new stories and adventures and also new wishes (that are made to give love to myself and of course to bring me some joy), this is my March wish list.

Março, o mês que eu, desde pequena, considero como sendo "o meu mês", pois é o mês que me envelhece mais um ano!
A pensar, assim, num novo mês com novos desafios e oportunidades, com novas histórias e aventuras, estes são os meus desejos para o mês (desejos que servem principalmente para me mimar e, claro, animar!).

1. Real Techniques Eyeshadow Starters Kit - HERE / 2. Demeliss Pro by Saint Algue (I can't find any official website, I'm sorry) / 3. Too Faced Better Than Sex Waterproof Mascara - HERE / 4. Intimissimi Bralette Sara Lace Satin- HERE / 5. Lovely Breeze Brow Bar Silver Sun Glasses (Portuguese Accessories Store that ships worldwide!) - HERE / 6. Urban Decay Perversion Ultra Fine Tip Eyeliner (it's a freaking vegan eyeliner!) - HERE / 7. Adidas Gazelle Shoes (which are on its way to my lovely home) - HERE / 8. Calzedonia Leggings Jeans Patch Garden - HERE 

Things people don't say about long distance relationships

If you are in the same situation that I am, or you wonder how it is to be in this situation, I do really want to give you an idea of a few things people forget to mention about long distance relationships.

First things first, people will question you (a lot), they will question your motives, your sanity, they will even try to convince you that it's not worth it, that it's stupid going through this whole distance thing, "why can't you find someone here?", "Yeah... Good luck with that". It's really annoying but you end up getting used to these comments and learn to shut them down.

Just because someone lives far away, doesn't mean they are not the one. Just because someone lives close to you doesn't mean they are the one.

You'll have doubts, you will question your choice, you will question everything, it's not your fault, it's human nature. But you have got to be mentally stronger than those doubts.

Being far from the one you're in love with is one of the hardest things you'll ever do. There are moments when you'll get sad for no actual reason, and you will sit and wonder why. People will tell you to suck it up, "you chose this, you knew what you were getting yourself into". But it's okay to be upset. In the end is also one of the most rewarding things you'll ever do. Plus, you have to be ready to make hard and life decisions all the time!

It's expensive, but fortunately, there are many ways to get around these days. Nothing can compare to the feeling you get when you're with them or see them for the first time after a while.

Most important thing... It's worth it.

8 Things I Really Appreciate on my LDR

Valentine's Day is already next week and honestly I'm not even sure if I have plans for that day. I never really gave too much importance to that day but I think it would be interesting have some special program for the day! The right person can really change you... Anyways, I'm on a LDR (meaning, long distance relationship) and I think that one of the worst things about it is when you try to go to sleep at night and you can imagine what it would be like to be cuddling with that person, the warmth of their body against yours, being the big spoon or the little spoon, feeling safe in his arms, knowing that when you wake up, they will be right beside you. Although, there are a few things that I do really appreciate, here is a list 8 of them:

1. The texts you get from him make you smile at your phone like an idiot.

2. You have the cutest Skype dates (and a lot of How I Met Your Mother episodes)

4. SKYPE KISSES!!

5. You get really excited planning visits and talking about closing the distance someday.

6. Every visit is a huge adventure.

7. You really appreciate the little things close distance couples don't.

8. You know that if you survive distance you both can survive anything!